Has it ever happened to you as well? That your life suddenly took on a new direction thanks to a good question, not thanks to a „well-meant“ advice? That the thing you couldn´t solve, start or change all of a sudden started as if by itself?
Also in these situations, it is true that we have all answers to all our problems within ourselves. It´s just that in the chaos and stress, and with the ever-so-supportive people around us, we somehow cannot find the right answers. One of the most common reactions of my clients is this:
„Well, that´s a good question. I would have never thought of looking at it like that.“
And then, there´s silence. Silence and time for thinking. Enough time to find the right answer, the right solution. Without me interfering. Without giving my own well-meant advices and suggestions. And then, once my client moves forward, comes another good question. And then, as my clients like to put it, miracles start to happen.
Miracles, at the beginning of which is their own advice to themselves.
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Have a beautiful day!
personal coach Katarína
